Right, after sorting my suspension and getting the new front end on I am back in love with the car so here are some pics!!!
How I got it;

Goodies!

fitted;

Although it was better than standard I didn't like the look, so bigger tyres went on (205/35 to 215/40) and allowed me to get rid of most of the arch gap!

then needed a little better fitment so got these (20mm for the back);

Which made the rear sit like this!!

I am pretty happy with the rear for the time being so decided to leave it alone for now, but as i always have to be doing something to the car I followed it up with some 10mm spacers for the front and an s-line front end which went on yesterday;

fitting was actually really easy, and took me around 2 hours without any prior knowledge!!
off;

and on again!!

And that brings me up to today. Not really sure where to go from here, but I'll no doubt find a new project soon enough!! Let me know what you guys think.